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Unlocking inner Joy: 10 powerful mechanisms to heal your inner child

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Jan 20, 2024, 01:00 IST
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10 tips to heal your inner child

Early childhood experiences can leave a lasting impression on our minds. Healing the inner child simply means pampering your younger self with love and compassion by fulfilling all unmet emotional needs of childhood.


Healing the inner child is a psychotherapy that deals with building coping mechanisms to address past childhood wounds. Healing the inner child is important as past childhood experiences can manifest as challenges in adulthood.

Here we list down 10 tips to heal your inner child.
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Reparenting your inner child​

Reparenting yourself is a therapeutic approach to healing your inner child. It implies healing your negative childhood experiences by pampering yourself with love. A neglected childhood leads to a wounded inner child that interferes with adult relationships. Reparenting the inner child is the conscious way of knowing yourself that emphasize

nurturing yourself with all that you feel got missed or neglected in your childhood.

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​Practice forgiveness

Carrying emotional baggage and blaming your caregivers or parents for the kind of experiences you had in childhood creates a deep psychological scar in which one finds it difficult to live the adult phase of life. Engaging in positive self-talk is crucial to bringing back cheerfulness in adult life. Learning to forgive your past circumstances can help you to be at peace with yourself.

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​Indulge yourself in creative pursuits

Creativity and imagination can help nurture the unfulfilled childhood. Creativity has the power to heal past wounds and bring back cheerfulness in life. It helps you to reconnect with your childhood memories or school days.

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​Consult a mental health professional for support

Talking to a therapist and taking psychotherapy is supportive. Opening up about past childhood experiences and the emotional complexities helps to heal the inner child. A therapist would help you reconnect and understand your inner child's needs. A counseling session would help in identifying triggers and validating those painful emotions.

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Journaling can be satisfying​

Journaling helps in reconnecting with suppressed emotions. Reflecting on your good memories, and moments of joy helps you connect better with your inner child. Practicing journaling helps in developing coping mechanisms.

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​Connect with your inner child

The very first and basic principle to heal your inner child is to connect positively with your inner child. A positive dialogue with help in addressing the emotional needs of your inner child. It helps to deal with self-sabotage and unhealthy emotions.

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Be more playful​

Psychologists emphasise being more playful to reconnect with your inner child. Engaging in games, and playful activities brings back the lost joy of childhood. It is the natural therapy to be more positive. It even helps to fulfill neglected childhood needs.

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Meditation​

Practicing meditation is the best way to calm yourself. It helps in controlling negative thoughts. Practicing mindfulness creates a space to acknowledge your past wounds, and to treat yourself with compassion.

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​Writing a letter to your inner child

Writing a letter to your inner child can be a comforting expression for your inner child. Expressing everything that your younger self wants helps to deal with unresolved past childhood experiences.

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Surround yourself with positive people​

It is important to know who forms your inner circle. Expressing yourself to people who are close offers support and releases emotional burdens. Positive relationships are the biggest support and help you grow in life.

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