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7 ways to keep the spark alive in your long-distance relationship

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - May 11, 2021, 12:00 IST
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​7 ways to keep the spark alive in your long-distance relationship

Being in a long-distance relationship comes with its own set of problems. When you two have been living together for a long time or have been based out of the same city, staying away from each other hurts a lot more. The physical touch, staying awake in bed and talking for hours, getting intimate - all matter a lot in a relationship and are hampered when it is a long-distance one. If you are also going through the problems of a long-distance relationship, here are 7 ways to keep the spark alive.

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​Avoid excessive communication

You two don’t have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Many couples think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more. This is not true. And it might only make things worse. Soon you would get tired of each other.

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​Start a countdown for your reunion

There isn’t anything much sweeter than having a constant reminder of when you will finally be back together. Download a countdown app for free, and you can customize everything about it, including having the countdown on your home screen.

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​Send love letters

Even though it is super old-fashioned, do it. They are a sentimental way to show your love and appreciation. You don’t have to get all lovey-dovey and write every single feeling. Just talk about what you want out of life. These letters are a way for the two of you to establish a deep connection.

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​Talk dirty with each other

Sexual desire is like a glue that keeps a couple from drifting apart. Not only is sex a biological need, but it is also an emotional one as well. Keep the flames burning by sending each other texts filled with sexual innuendos and provocative descriptions.

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Surprise them with a visit

Of course, planned trips are amazing, but a surprise is even better especially when your partner is having a rough week or has something big to celebrate. Also, the fewer people you tell in advance, the less of a chance the secret will get leaked.

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​Gift a personal object for the other person to hold on to

Be it a small pendant, a ring, a keychain, or a collection of songs and videos. We often attach meanings to the little things and items found in our everyday life. This is why something so simple can mean so much to a person.

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​Plan a virtual date night

Thanks to the internet and video calling, you can make a date night happen no matter where you are. Pick a time and date, then cook dinner and open up a bottle of wine together. However, the hardest part will be saying goodbye when it's time to call it a night!

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