Things you should aim to achieve during sex, besides the obvious

If you thought sex is just about penetration and orgasm, this story is going to give you a little more information about the deed. It is about building the chemistry and connection with your partner that can bring you both closer. In fact, there is so much more to explore and enjoy during sex that many of us tend to ignore. Instead of aiming for just an orgasm, here are a few things you should try to achieve during sex…

Sex can help you to explore your different sides that you might have never discovered before. You might be a lazy bum throughout the day but a super energetic and passionate person in bed. Or, you might be a dominating person in daily life but like to be dominated by your significant other inside the bedroom. What about your sexual preferences, fantasies and what all works for you? Sex definitely leads you on the road on self-discovery!

Sex leads to intimacy and affection with your significant other. Rather than treating it just as a physical activity, use it as a way to strike an emotional connect with your partner and take your relationship to the next level.

Sex can be a great way to let your hair down and unwind after a tiring day at office or forget all the things that have been bothering you entire day. Plus, it helps in reducing stress by relaxing your nerves and in turn, helps you both to sleep like a baby.

Sex might turn a mundane activity over the years and needless to say, experimentation is the key to add some spice to your sex life. Whether it is role play, BDSM, trying out a new toy, lingerie, place or position, step out of your comfort zone and you never know you might find something that takes your pleasure and satisfaction to next level.

While having an orgasm surely leads to great sex but that should not be the ultimate goal of your sack session. In fact, many people tend to lose out on enjoying all the other things because their mind is focussed only on having an orgasm. Sometimes, due to physical exhaustion, stress, ongoing medication or many other reasons, you may not orgasm every time you have sex. But that does not mean it is not going to be a satisfying and emotional experience. All you need to do is to engage with your partner and involve all your five senses—their smell, the sight of them undressing, their sensual touch, the sounds they make, et al. (Representational images)