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​From branching to benching: 10 modern-dating terms one should know​

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| TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - May 31, 2024, 19:30 IST
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​​From branching to benching: 10 modern-dating terms one should know​


In the rapidly changing world of modern dating, new terms and trends are always popping up, making it important to stay in the know. Whether you’re exploring the digital dating scene or just want to understand the latest jargon, here are ten current dating terms you need to be aware of.

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​​Ghosting​


Ghosting is one of the most well-known dating terms. It describes the abrupt and unexplained ending of communication by one party in a dating relationship. The person being ghosted is left puzzled as their messages and calls go unanswered.

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​​Breadcrumbing​


This term refers to when someone gives just enough attention to keep another person interested without committing to a real relationship. Breadcrumbing usually involves occasional texts, social media likes, and sporadic interactions that keep the other person engaged.

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​​Benching​


Benching is similar to breadcrumbing. It occurs when someone keeps another person as a backup option, maintaining just enough interaction to keep them interested but not enough to move forward. The benched individual is left in a state of uncertainty.

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​​Orbiting​


Orbiting happens when someone stops direct communication but continues to engage with the other person on social media by liking, commenting, or viewing their stories. This creates a confusing dynamic as the person remains digitally present without making an effort to connect.

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​​Submarining​


Also known as zombieing, submarining occurs when someone who previously ghosted you reappears with no explanation or apology, acting as if nothing happened. This sudden reappearance can be both perplexing and frustrating.

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​​Cushioning​


Cushioning involves keeping multiple potential partners in reserve as a form of insurance against the main relationship ending. This practice ensures that the person has someone to fall back on, creating a safety net.

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​​Love bombing​


Love bombing is an intense form of affection and attention early in a relationship, often used to manipulate the other person into becoming emotionally dependent. The love bomber overwhelms their partner with compliments, gifts, and constant communication, creating a whirlwind romance that can quickly become toxic.

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​​Dial-toning​


Dial-toning refers to when someone gives out their phone number but never responds to any messages or calls. Essentially, the person is given the "dial tone" treatment, signaling disinterest without direct confrontation.

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​​Paperclipping​


Paperclipping happens when an ex or former flame reappears in your life just to remind you they still exist. This usually occurs without any real interest in rekindling the relationship, serving only to create confusion or stir up old emotions.

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​​Branching​


Branching is a strategy where someone keeps their options open by continuing to explore new potential partners while dating someone. This term highlights the importance of not putting all your eggs in one basket, allowing for a broader search for the ideal match.

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