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8 kinky things women want you to do in bed

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Jun 2, 2023, 10:32 IST
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things women want you to do in bed

Women expect their partner to understand from their body language that there is something in particular they want him to do. So the man keeps guessing and can be scared too to try something that she may like. So to combat that issue, we bring to you this guide to what women truly want you to do in bed.

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Talking dirty

You will be surprised how women love it when men talk dirty in bed. It generally happens during the heat of passion when they want you to say something.

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Go slow

Be it kissing, sex or foreplay, you do not always have to be done with it in 10 minutes. Go slow, she is not running away. Unless of course she too is in the mood. Work your way.

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Sex toys

No, not all, but the vibrator is something she may want you to use on her. If you think it may shock her ( if it is a topic never discussed), slip in a conversation on how you read something about using a vibrator and the pleasure it gives. You never know, she may just ask you to use it.

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The undressing

Instead of her undressing herself, women love it when their partner undresses them. There are two ways to do it and that is with aggression or gently. However, when you are aggressive, in the mood to tear off clothes, make sure it is not something very dear to her or too expensive to be damaged.

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Compliment

Just like you want her to compliment you, it's vice versa. Compliment her on her lingerie, her body parts, let her feel confident and watch how she blooms in bed.

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Smell good

Please smell good, use an antiperspirant unless you have an underarm fettish. Wear the perfume she likes on you.

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The finishing line

Please try your best to last long. Women take time to climax.

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Going down

Most women do not say it, but they do want their man to go down on them like men expect their partner to do the same. The act of sex is not what makes them orgasm but it is oral sex which does.


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