Children in Netherlands are among the world’s happiest. Know what keeps Dutch kids so happy

Children in the Netherlands are considered the happiest in the world, suggested the latest UNICEF report. The United Nation's body prepared the report after analysing data across 41 high-income countries. For the report, they ranked the countries based on kids' mental wellbeing, physical health, and the development of both academic and social skills. The Netherlands topped the chart of all the three wellbeing outcomes, followed by Denmark and Norway respectively. Researchers believe that several reasons make kids of the Netherlands the happiest in the world. The reports clearly stated that the country's earnings, education, housing and health status are some of the major reasons that make the country a better place to live in for kids.

Dutch mostly follow the assertive style of parenting to raise their little one. They listen to their kid's thoughts and opinions, but at the same time, they also communicate what they feel is right. It helps to reduce conflicts between kids and parents at home. Assertiveness is often confused with aggressiveness, but the two are quite contradicting topics. In this style, parents need to voice their needs respectfully, listen empathetically, and model integrity. It helps to maintain the love and warmth between kids and parents.

Good communication is the key to building a strong relationship. Dutch have a reputation for being open to talking about topics that parents of other countries do not feel comfortable discussing. It helps to instil confidence in kids and they share a good bond with their parents. From childhood, Dutch kids are taught to speak their minds. Moreover, they have freedom of religion, freedom of speech and freedom of sexual expression amongst others.

The Dutch value their family and prioritise them above all. Even if the parents have a busy schedule they never forget to take out some for their family. Children regularly eat dinner with their parents and take part in other activities. Moreover, both mother and father have an equal role to play in raising the kid. They also have a legally allowed (unpaid) day off work for dads to look after their children. This makes Dutch parents the happiest in the world and happy parents raise happy kids.

When it comes to schooling and education, the Dutch value diversity and inclusiveness. Parents have a healthy attitude towards their kids and their future. They see them as individuals rather than extensions of themselves. As a result, they do not pressure their little ones to perform well or score high numbers. They let them choose their own path and support their decision. They are realistic about their children’s strengths and provide freedom to explore their boundaries.